4 Energies people emanate
How to deal with a person that doesn’t like you but you have no choice but to deal
with him/her since it’s your family or coworker etc? Manage your energy well
Energy
Before we jump into my system let me tell you this:
This system work in all aspect of life.
Energy you feel towards other, things, situation. How others feel towards you.
It can be translated to many many things- as the law of correspondence applies here perfectly.
1) POSITIVE-POSITIVE
2) POSITIVE-NEGATIVE
3) NEGATIVE-NEGATIVE
4) NEGATIVE-POSITIVE
1st let me explain how to read it:
The ‘Numerator’ Is the core energy the biggest swing of the pendulum and is the hardest to change.
The adjectives POSITIVE & NEGATIVE is self explanatory. You like something or you don’t.
The ‘Denominator’ Is either you emanating outwards the core energy or not.
If your denominator is POSITIVE = you showing, expressing the ‘Numerator’ your core energy (towards something, someone)
In simple:
POSITIVE-POSITIVE person:
He/she likes you and is showing it.
POSITIVE-NEGATIVE
Person likes you but is not showing it.
Because the denominator is ‘NEGATIVE’ implies that the energy, vibe is not being expressed.
NEGATIVE-NEGATIVE
You don’t like something but you’re not expressing it.
This is by the way- the best default setting when something happens in physical world that you’re not particularly fond off. That move will prevent leaking of your energies further into negative spiral.
NEGATIVE-POSITIVE
You don’t like something and you’re expressing it.
This is the lowest vibe to be in. And you should avoid spending much time here.
Now let’s go over couple of scenarios and how you can deal with different type
of those energies, and how you can potentially change them.
Usually, in most cases the hardest to change it the Nominator, the 1st adjective.
The core energy.
If someone is POSITIVE-POSITIVE. Like your spouse (should be at least lol),
he/she likes you and is expressing it.
She might sometimes go to Positive-Negative. She still likes you but not expressing it at the
moment. At worst maybe during heated argument she might swing towards NEGATIVE-POSITIVE.
But likely will not spend lot time there. As things cool of she will likely be at NEGATIVE-NEGATIVE.
Still feeling some resentment but not expressing it verbally. Maybe you get a silent treatment.
But eventually she will go back to default settings towards you.
As you can see, when we go over the example of ‘Heated argument’
this already shows how fast the swing of the pendulum goes, and how quickly
the setting are changing. This clearly shows that ‘argument’ is very polarizing.
At this point you should realize why mainstream media loving this, and why they are
pushing onto you those kind of topics. To triggered the energy exchange, to get those
inner pendulum swings going so they can harvest that energy, thru means of social media etc.
And those type of sick games happening everywhere in human relationships.
But awareness is the key. Once you know, you have a power to reclaim your sovereignty.
Other strong energy exchanges happen when expressive denominators are meeting.
For example:
Both POSITIVE-POSITIVE meet: You like the girl and she likes you and
you’re both expressing it = LOVE , SEX etc.
Both NEGATIVE-POSITIVE meet: It will likely end in the argument as they are
both expressive the hate towards each other.
When non expressive meet usually nothing happens. The relationships just is.
BUT, there is BIG BUT (lol).
When you have a strong sense of Intuition you will generally sense other persons core energy towards you, even tho they are not expressive about it. That can start to create more separations and potential swings towards more expressive energies. But this is slippery slope, because you simply might be projecting.
For example:
You just know that one coworker is not big fan of yours, even tho you
have no real proof, you just read his/her body language and overall vibe towards you.
She/he is likely NEGATIVE-NEGATIVE.
You have to be careful here, not to swing yourself towards
NEGATIVE-POSITIVE, because sometimes there are people who doing it on purpose
to direct you exactly there, so you become expressive
– negatively towards them. And you will get manipulated,
and look like an asshole in a group format, because
that said person didn’t do “anything wrong”.
But you exactly knew that was going on.
How to deal with it?
You’re going to match the same vibe,
and most importantly never have POSITIVE denominator
towards them. It means don’t express any polarity towards them.
Just accept it, let it be. Don’t fight what is, and stay away from this dynamic.
It will leak your energy tremendously and it will get you into negative spiral.
As you have probably figure out by now (because you’re Smart).
That to neutralize polarity (of either kind) you gotta stay non-reactive, non-responsive towards it.
Now let’s talk about swings.
This perfectly matches when someone is BIPOLAR.
Their swing are fast between either polarity.
And this is what Pop culture calls “CRAZY BITCH” 🙂
Right now she intently loves you and next hour you’re the worst boyfriend ever.
If this is what you’re willing to deal with, you need to have a strong,
non expressive attitude towards her. Otherwise you will start swinging with her
and those type of situation never end well.
Now you may ask: What if extreme polarities meet?
That would mean = expressive polarities meet.
POSITIVE-POSITIVE vs NEGATIVE-POSITIVE
Well, image it:
When I was a kid- I really this girl and everyone knew about it but she hated my guts.
How it ended?
I came down one step and did she. I became POSITIVE-NEGATIVE, meaning still liked her but stopped expressing it. And she came one step closer to equilibrium as well and became NEGATIVE-NEGATIVE.
Still didn’t like me but was quite about it (poor me lol)
And this is the type of swing that when the CORE is expressive, is hardest to swing completely to the other side. And it might take years to happen, or it might never happen.
Like in my example I always liked her and it never change, and she also never really liked me.
Another example:
A person hates Trump = Person is NEGATIVE-POSITIVE.
As you can image it’s highly unlikely for that person to swing to POSITIVE-POSITIVE
towards him. At best that person might become NEGATIVE-NEGATIVE.
Meaning still not liking him, but it not as expressive about it as he/she was before.
In summary,
in most cases once your core energy is at furthest polarity, it will likely stay that way.
And you might only swing a little bit, kind of on shorter time-frame one step below or above.
The strongest energy win, when….
POSITIVE-NEGATIVE & NEGATIVE-NEGATIVE meet.
Dating example:
The girl is kind of neutral towards you, not particularly liking you, maybe a bit even
dislikes something about you, but it not expressive about it.
You secretly like her but are afraid to express it, because you know- you feel her vibe.
If your energy is stronger you can make her come one step closer to meet you,
and become POSITIVE-NEGATIVE towards you. But also that would call for a need for you to
become expressive about it, thus come up to POSITIVE-POSITIVE towards her.
This in most cases is how would cold approach works. Think dating apps, cold approach on the street etc.
Now, to change that subtle polarity takes a lot of energy and dedication to make her come up one step close to meet you.
If she persists in her NEGATIVE-NEGATIVE state towards you even you have tried and spend loads of your energy.
She is ‘stronger’ energy in this case, and you eventually give up. And come back one step down or even 2.
And become NEGATIVE-NEGATIVE towards her.
As you have already concluded, you’d have easiest time with a girl that already likes you.
Even tho she is not expressing it.
Take this concept applies to other aspects of life as well.
Think sports for example, the top players at their peaks are POSITIVE-POSITIVE.
They might have some dips and go one step lower or two, but real world class players,
will never go down to other side of polarity, or it might happen at the end of their
carriers because simply the pendulum swing is completed.
Think economy, weather, take this topic and contemplate upon it, meditate.
It will improve your life in great ways.
TL;DR:
To mitigate effects of polarity you have to stay non-expressive towards it.
Core energies are the furthest Swings of pendulum and are the hardest to change.
Or they might never change.
To bring someone closer- to match your energy
you gonna have to become expressive about it.
Stronger expressive energy can change inert negative energy and pull towards it.
And vice versa.
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